If you have perfected your love in this present moment and you have loved your beloved with all your heart and completely surrendered and merged with him. So you didn’t put anything for the future in your relationship. The thought of the future never arises in those who love in the present. It is impossible to wake up from the thought of the future. It always comes when something is incomplete; Then you yearn for the future.
If you have loved your boyfriend or girlfriend today and death has come, you will accept that. Or if a woman falls in love with someone else, you will say goodbye but not be sad. There is beauty in sadness, but sadness is ugly. It is a pity that there is no misery because of attachment, the girlfriend is going away, love is still flowing in you, that’s why you are sad.
No complaints, no animosity. But if two people have loved each other from the heart, it never happens that the woman can go, or the man can go. Because those people are attached at heart, their love satisfies them so deeply. One cannot even think of another human being. It is impossible to dream of another human being.
Feelings of having another relationship arise because of your partner’s dissatisfaction. You think of other women as not having a satisfactory relationship with your own woman. You think about other men because the mind wants to express its feelings, there is no love in this relationship. That’s why the mind wanders here and there. You start feeling love for any woman or man.